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https://integrallife.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/EvolvingSpirit-Alexander-NoTitle.jpg1456816After the tragic murder of his father at age 20, Alexander Love began a decades-long journey through grief, spiritual practice, and shadow work — seeking not just to rise above his pain, but to finally and fully include it. In this deeply personal conversation, he shares how real healing began not with transcendence, but with embracing the very wounds he had tried to escape.